This week, I have been working on the practice of loving
kindness. This was a little more challenging than I thought it would be. At first,
I found it a bit difficult to really focus through the entire exercise. I would
start out focused, but then I would find myself letting my mind wander to other
concerns. As I practiced a few times however, I was able to improve my
concentration. The second part that I found difficult was when I was supposed
to send out loving kindness to everyone collectively. I found myself thinking
of specific people one at a time and breathing in their suffering and sending
out loving kindness. I will have to
continue working on the practice in order to be able to send loving kindness to
everyone collectively.
Research indicates that it is possible to train the mind
much like an athlete trains the body. It seems that there is an actual increase
in gamma wave synchronization showing improved mental integration. Mental
distress is reduced, and well being is increased. High levels on mental
training are necessary to reach these levels. However beginning with 30 minutes
per day is better than nothing. I think of it as conditioning for an athletic
event. I could not simply get up off the couch and decide to run a marathon today,
I need to train and condition my body first. So, for my mind I must begin
slowly as well.
I rather enjoyed your post. I admit I did not really understand the part about collectively sending out loving kindness to others whom I do not know and the part about taking in others suffering. But after repeating the exercise and opening my mind and focusing I have found that you can send out loving kindness collectively. It is about learning to focus, you really can train your brain just as you would for your body. Nice post.
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